Yet Another RadFem Who <3s The Gender Binary
Newsflash: according to radfem Laurelin, 50% of bisexuals have “no right” to talk about anal sex. Possessing a penis renders you inherently ignorant of such matters, as well as making you impossible to rape.
Additionally, homosexuals & bisexuals of the male variety must have a tendency towards raging sadism, since they tend to willingly engage in an act which is “*fucking painful*” even when society is begging them to stop! Those inexplicable critters.
It probably comes from them being men and thus being naturally, unerringly and indelibly ignorant of all things anal sex, right?
(Incidentally, saying that anal sex is fun in public is unacceptable as we are in an environment where rapists rape people in the anus. Of course, it is equally unethical to advocate that people build basements, for was it not inside a basement that Fritzl & all other manner of Patriarchy obedient scumbags trapped and raped their quarry? Basements are a tool of the Patriarchy and of sexual abusers! Any woman who works with subterranean house expansion or acts as an apologist for wine cellars has no right to call herself a feminist!)
I made a great folly in thinking of Laurelin as an equal. I should never have imagined that the fags like to engage in activities which are pleasurable & that claiming otherwise required some explanation. I should have closely monitored all RATM threads to make sure that I still had permission to talk to her, as after all she is not my wife, & above all I should have remembered the position which society has set out for me and stuck to it. We’re separate beings intrinsically & forever divided, after all. Practically a different species.
I’d like to thank Laurelin for reminding me of my place within the Patriarchy & stressing to me that men & women are not the same. It’s views like this that will bring the binary crashing down in no time.
I plan to stop by your blog more often. I can’t imagine why Laurelin would assume men know nothing about anal sex, since we are the ones who benefit most from it, whether it be giving or receiving. I’m just beginning to explore this with my wife, though she’s concerned about hurting me. If only most men were that courteous.
I don’t know if I agree with you telling a woman whether or not she can call herself a feminist or not. Bisexual or not, we still benefit from male privilege. Laurelin may not have a clue in hell about LGBT issues, but that doesn’t mean we have any business informing her that she’s lost her feminist credentials. Of course, I’m one of those guys that refuses to call myself anything other than a recovering sexist until conditions no longer prevail that provide me with male privilege. To complicate things more, Laurelin, assuming she’s hetero, benefits from hetero privilege. Not that one privilege trumps another - just to point out how convoluted of a monster we’re dealing with here.
I assume Laurelin is in a learning process, just like the rest of us.
Good comment, Syndicalist. I agree 99%.
The 1% disagreement is in Laurelin not understanding LGBT issues. She might not, but this is not evidenced by her comments on that entry. There is nothing homophobic in those comments. She only talks about heterosexual anal sex, never homosexual anal sex. So she does not presume to understand the gay male experience, merely to understand the straight female experience (which she does, but that neither you nor any other man can ever even hope to).